Entertainment media places a lot of emphasis on the losing
of one’s virginity. They don’t place near as much emphasis – if any – on
abstinence or waiting to have sex. Generally, a theme of waiting to have sex is
not a theme at all – it just isn’t discussed in entertainment media unless it
is being made fun of. Of course, there are always exceptions, but the popular
entertainment media rakes in the bucks by producing story lines that have sex
in them – it’s that simple.
This commonality of sexuality in entertainment media is why
I find the movie Superbad to be so
interesting. Superbad is a
quintessential funny movie aimed at guys, with crude jokes and hot girls. The
entire plot of the movie is essentially that a group of guys wants to get drunk
and lose their virginities before they go off to college – completely
fulfilling Kelly’s (2010) urgency script. That they place so much emphasis on
losing their virginities before they step in to the real world is not shocking
and fits well with the ideology that entertainment media is pushing out to its
consumers. This theme is in very stark contrast with what happens near the end
of the movie.
In this clip (and subsequent scenes that I’m unable to
find), it’s clear that Michael Cera’s character is very reluctant to have sex
with the girl that is throwing herself at him. You find out that he feels
extremely uncomfortable having sex with her because she is so drunk. This
really flips his character from originally pursing the urgency script to
pursuing more of a management script, in which he puts an unexpected “emphasis
on ‘appropriate’ virginity loss” (Kelly, 2010, pg. 482). While Kelly’s (2010)
article focuses on girls’ virginity scripts, I think it’s interesting to place
guys within them and see how they fit. Superbad
portrays a first sexual encounter for a guy as less exciting and more
inhibited by alcohol – which goes against the entertainment media norm – and
for a girl as far more reckless and enabled by alcohol… until she throws up on
him, of course.
I think it’s really healthy for viewers of content such as Superbad
that tend to place a lot of emphasis on an urgency script and that “males
constantly desire sex” (Kelly, 2010, pg. 485). From this analysis, it is clear
that “there are multiple and often contradictory sexual scripts” that could
potentially confuse viewers regarding sexual health and encounters, but that
can also open their minds to several potential ways to approach sexuality (Kelly, 2010, pg. 488).
Kelly, M. (2010). Virginity Loss Narratives in "Teen Drama" Television Programs. In The Journal of Sex Research.
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